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Sometimes what clients go through is an exact replication of their own trauma. This is so painful to watch, it’s called retraumatization.
Sometimes therapy just wears us out!
Therapists have to be mindful of their boundaries and ethics as they work with clients, here’s why!
We love celebrating with clients at specific times. Curious to know what types of days clients like to celebrate?
We love when clients come in to share a big win!
Therapists do a lot of things in therapy but here’s an example of the more intimate side of being a therapist.
What does a healthy couple healing together in therapy look like? Here’s a sneak peak!
Are you curious what types of people come to therapy? What do they do? Who are they?
Some clients just have what it takes to be goal-minded, hard-working, and ready to heal from alllll their pain.
by Dr. Kendra A. O’Hora, LCMFT Another poem from the In That Chair poem series. Thank you for following along and taking an inside look at therapy through the eyes of me! In that chair, you justify your affair, a truth of passion ignited because your husband doesn’t get you. Your lover lays beneath you, […]
At the end of May 2019, we wrapped up the first birth trauma therapy group here at Wellness & Co. For eight weeks, four mamas learned; developed relationships; processed through hurt, pain, abandonment, and anger; and worked on forgiving themselves for not making choices they might have made had they felt empowered to do so. It was a privilege for me to watch them work through their struggles together, especially as a survivor of birth trauma myself. It was amazing to watch a mother soften in her judgement of herself and also feel completely accepted by those around her, something that these women admitted to previously not feeling very often, if ever.
When I started seeing clients in Maryland five years ago I noticed that people often had the same comments or questions regarding the therapeutic process. They typically go something like this: “but you haven’t experienced [parenting] so you don’t really know what its like,” “you must have the perfect marriage,” “I didn’t want to come because people in therapy have real problems and ours isn’t a problem,” “I figured that if I came to therapy once a week something would change”
….these types of comments and more go on and on. In short, people think ALL sorts of things about therapy.
Do you ever feel like your relationship is stuck? Running on autopilot? Or completely thrown off course?
I get it, I really do. I want you to know that if you answered yes to any of those questions, you’re normal. Your relationship is totally, 100%, normal.
We all get stuck. We all let our relationships run on cruise control without the proper love and attention they need. And, we all let our partnerships run off course. All of us, even therapists.