Many clients have experienced sexual trauma. We never take these stories for granted because we know they are personal, private, and painful.

We all have a story. How we chose to share our story and integrate our story into our lives depends on who we are and how we want to heal.

Many partners are not ready to think about how they have contributed to their spouses betrayal or affair and that’s OK. But when you are ready, let’s start here…

Many couples do not even know where to begin after an affair. They ask themselves whether they’ll even be able to survive. We can help!

Therapists can get burnt out, too. That’s why it’s so important to make space for self-care and recognize when we are wishing for the weekend.

Couples therapists see the worst of the worst. Infidelity, betrayal, trauma, withdraw, distance, lifelessness, marriages who are barely surviving. Sometimes we have to pause and wonder whether nowadays people want to be married.

In that chair,

Therapists have to rearrange physical needs based on when it’s convenient in our schedule with clients. Hunger is not always an easy one to set aside when you have a string of clients in a row. Learn more…

Sometimes what clients go through is an exact replication of their own trauma. This is so painful to watch, it’s called retraumatization.

Sometimes therapy just wears us out!