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By Amanda Clegg, CNEP, CLC, M.NLPReading Time: 3 minutes 30 sec When the earthquake hits, the first thing you do is find something to hold on to.After betrayal, that’s the work of the first stage: survival. You’re both standing in the rubble, trying to breathe through the dust, unsure if the ground will give way […]
by Rebecca Horch, BACYC, CPCReading Time: 5 Minutes It’s a strange thing to feel the weight of grief without having lost something specific. A heaviness in the chest. A low-grade tension in the body. A sense that something is off, but we can’t always name it. Many of us are living with a kind of […]
By Rebecca Horch, BACYC, CPCReading Time: 4 minutes So far, we’ve explored how our body’s natural rhythms influence sleep and how our relationship to rest shapes our ability to recharge. But there’s another layer to consider – hormones and underlying sleep disorders. These factors can quietly disrupt sleep, making it feel frustratingly out of reach, […]
By Ana Rogers, LGPC, NCC READING TIME: 4 MINUTES Hi friends! Let this blog be your survival guide to navigating accidental encounters with your therapist IRL. Because it does happen! And if it’s not yet happened, I might venture a guess that you’ve wondered what is supposed to happen, or even what you should or […]
By Jessica Smith, LCPCCo-Author Dr. Kendra O’Hora, Ph.D., LCMFT READING TIME: 5 MINUTES Well, yes. But, not in the juicy HBO gossip sense you may be thinking of. And thank goodness – what’s portrayed on TV is most often not ethical! But yes, most therapists (not all) talk about their clients in what’s called clinical […]
By Dr. Kendra A. O’Hora, Ph.D., LCMFT READING TIME: 6 MINUTES “Would you like to do a 90-minute session next week?” Recently, my therapist asked me if I wanted to switch to a 90-minute session. Since we’ve had a long-standing relationship and I really trust her, I thought – why not?! Two weeks later, I’m […]
By Ana Rogers, LGPC, NCC READING TIME: 5 minutes Hi hi! So glad you stopped by. You are not alone if today’s blog feels personally relevant. It also resonates with me. It took me a hot minute to settle on this topic, all thanks to the analysis paralysis that seizes my brain when I feel […]
At the end of May 2019, we wrapped up the first birth trauma therapy group here at Wellness & Co. For eight weeks, four mamas learned; developed relationships; processed through hurt, pain, abandonment, and anger; and worked on forgiving themselves for not making choices they might have made had they felt empowered to do so. It was a privilege for me to watch them work through their struggles together, especially as a survivor of birth trauma myself. It was amazing to watch a mother soften in her judgement of herself and also feel completely accepted by those around her, something that these women admitted to previously not feeling very often, if ever.
When I started seeing clients in Maryland five years ago I noticed that people often had the same comments or questions regarding the therapeutic process. They typically go something like this: “but you haven’t experienced [parenting] so you don’t really know what its like,” “you must have the perfect marriage,” “I didn’t want to come because people in therapy have real problems and ours isn’t a problem,” “I figured that if I came to therapy once a week something would change”
….these types of comments and more go on and on. In short, people think ALL sorts of things about therapy.
Do you ever feel like your relationship is stuck? Running on autopilot? Or completely thrown off course?
I get it, I really do. I want you to know that if you answered yes to any of those questions, you’re normal. Your relationship is totally, 100%, normal.
We all get stuck. We all let our relationships run on cruise control without the proper love and attention they need. And, we all let our partnerships run off course. All of us, even therapists.