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By Kendra A. O’Hora, Ph.D., LCMFT READING TIME: 4 minutes Gaslighting – The Word of the Year Did you know that gaslighting was the 2022 Merriam-Webster’s word of the year? We are living in a time when words like gaslighting, abuse, toxicity, trauma, narcissism, etc. are thrown around a lot. In some instances, these terms […]
By Amanda Clegg, Relationship Coach It can be scary for couples when their relationship isnāt where they want it to be, but it does NOT mean that they are doomed (I get that question, a lot!). It does mean (and I say this lovingly) that they have inner and relational work to do. Couples who […]
By Erin Newton, LCPC, PMH-C Iām coming to you now, oh internet, with less wisdom than I have ever blogged with before. Five days ago, after living for twenty plus years with them functional in my mouth, I had all my nightmares come true and all four of my wisdom teeth removed. And I decided […]
By Brittany Moffitt, LICSW You may remember the saying āIt takes a village to raise a child.ā When we imagine this concept of a āparenting villageā, it can feel so very far from where we are today, particularly in a society that values individualism over collectivism. A parenting village of multi-generations and extended family to […]
By Rebecca Horch, BACYC, CPC Parents, I have something to say that you might have a hard time hearing. When you put your kid in therapy, nothing is going to happenā¦for a really long time. Itāll cost a lot of money, and take a lot of time, and you will feel frustrated that all you […]
By Amanda Clegg & Rebecca Horch Have you been doing inner work for years? Have you been spending time developing a meditation practice? Have you been stuck in old patterns that feel difficult to shift? Then you, my friend, could be an ideal candidate for our newest service at Wellness & Co.! Picture this: Two […]
Once a woman starts trying to conceive, the journey to motherhood begins. Matrescence refers to the process of becoming a mother. It parallels another one of lifeās transitions, adolescence. Like the transition from child to teenager, motherhood comes with many changes to our hormones, physical body, relationships, and identity. According to Alexandra Sacks, an expert […]
Hi friends! Your Intuitive Needs Assistant Kaileen here! Iām so so excited to write this blog. So excited in fact, I had to pause and scribble my random thoughts out up until this very moment. After all, the first step to organization is always a brain dump, even when it comes to our thoughts. So […]
Divorce is one of the most painful, scary, and overwhelming life experiences that someone can go through as a human. It rocks your foundation and leaves you feeling so deeply alone. It causes you to question how youāll pay your bills, survive on your own, support your children, be able to trust another person in […]
At the end of May 2019, we wrapped up the first birth trauma therapy group here at Wellness & Co. For eight weeks, four mamas learned; developed relationships; processed through hurt, pain, abandonment, and anger; and worked on forgiving themselves for not making choices they might have made had they felt empowered to do so. It was a privilege for me to watch them work through their struggles together, especially as a survivor of birth trauma myself. It was amazing to watch a mother soften in her judgement of herself and also feel completely accepted by those around her, something that these women admitted to previously not feeling very often, if ever.
When I started seeing clients in Maryland five years ago I noticed that people often had the same comments or questions regarding the therapeutic process. They typically go something like this: ābut you havenāt experienced [parenting] so you donāt really know what its like,ā āyou must have the perfect marriage,ā āI didnāt want to come because people in therapy have real problems and ours isnāt a problem,ā āI figured that if I came to therapy once a week something would changeā
ā¦.these types of comments and more go on and on. In short, people think ALL sorts of things about therapy.
Do you ever feel like your relationship is stuck? Running on autopilot? Or completely thrown off course?
I get it, I really do. I want you to know that if you answered yes to any of those questions, youāre normal. Your relationship is totally, 100%, normal.
We all get stuck. We all let our relationships run on cruise control without the proper love and attention they need. And, we all let our partnerships run off course. All of us, even therapists.