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August 6, 2025
By Amanda Clegg, Relationship Coach, CNEP, CLC, M.NLPReading Time: 4 minutes Understanding the difference between guilt and shame is crucial, not just for your own emotional wellness, but also for how you repair and reconnect with your partner after conflict. This pattern is common in couples counseling: when shame takes over, it creates disconnection and […]
July 21, 2025
By Amanda Clegg, CNEP, CLC, M.NLPReading Time: 6 minutes You want to feel close.They want to feel calm.You want to talk it through.They want to let it pass.You reach.They retreat.And just like that, you’re both left feeling disconnected—and neither of you got what you needed. Welcome to one of the most common (and painful) patterns […]
February 11, 2025
By Amanda Clegg, Relationship Coach, CLC, M.NLP READING TIME: 3 MINUTES I see and hold the experience often of partners moving at different healing speeds. Here are a few things I’ve learned working with couples… While this imbalance may cause you to feel annoyed, angry, or even resentful towards your partner (especially when you feel […]
December 31, 2024
By Kyle Turner, LGPC READING TIME: 5 MINUTES There’s no denying it: mental health is fascinating. Since the pandemic, more people than ever are delving into their own psyches and bringing the discussion of mental health out of the shadows and into the light. Buttt, we seem to be a little unclear on some of […]
November 5, 2024
By: Amanda Clegg, Relationship Coach, CLC, M.NLP READING TIME: 4 MINUTES As I sit here beginning to write this blog, contemplating how I want it to begin, a song keeps coming to mind that played a huge role in the inspiration for it. These words feel like the perfect way to introduce a topic that […]
October 22, 2024
Part III: Advocacy, Cultivating Awareness, and Providing Our Girls a Path Forward By: Rebecca Horch, BACYC, CPC You have made it to the final part of our series on ADHD in women and girls! If you have followed along thus far you will already have been given some valuable tips and tools on how to begin […]
October 15, 2024
Part II: The Empowerment of an ADHD Diagnosis By: Rebecca Horch, BACYC, CPC Welcome to part 2 of our 3 part series about ADHD. These posts are meant to inform and educate, and you may find that you connect with them, either on a personal level or because you have someone in your life who […]
October 8, 2024
Part I: An Undetected Journey By: Rebecca Horch, BACYC, CPC My Story – “Earth to Rebecca!” My 5th grade teacher used to yell this across the classroom when I would zone out during math lessons. I would snap out of whatever imaginative world I had entered and, embarrassed, pick up my pencil to doodle, at […]
August 27, 2024
By Amanda Clegg, Relationship Coach, CLC, M.NLP Reading Time: 4 minutes Okok, the title “Fighting Is a Good Thing” might be a little strange to read but just hear me out… What I’m not saying is that constant conflict is a good thing, nor am I saying that I want you to be fighting in […]
August 13, 2024
Dear Reader, This author has only one pressing question. How do you respond to the betrayed, broken, fixated, and furious spouse demanding to know: “should I stay or should I go?” If you recognize the introduction of this blog, or read it with the exact tone of Lady Whistledown, then you are out from under […]
How to Write Your Birth Story: Using The Power of Expressive Writing to Process Trauma
At the end of May 2019, we wrapped up the first birth trauma therapy group here at Wellness & Co. For eight weeks, four mamas learned; developed relationships; processed through hurt, pain, abandonment, and anger; and worked on forgiving themselves for not making choices they might have made had they felt empowered to do so. It was a privilege for me to watch them work through their struggles together, especially as a survivor of birth trauma myself. It was amazing to watch a mother soften in her judgement of herself and also feel completely accepted by those around her, something that these women admitted to previously not feeling very often, if ever.
A Complete Guide to Starting Couples Therapy: Kickstart Your Bond with Healing and Hope Today
When I started seeing clients in Maryland five years ago I noticed that people often had the same comments or questions regarding the therapeutic process. They typically go something like this: “but you haven’t experienced [parenting] so you don’t really know what its like,” “you must have the perfect marriage,” “I didn’t want to come because people in therapy have real problems and ours isn’t a problem,” “I figured that if I came to therapy once a week something would change”
….these types of comments and more go on and on. In short, people think ALL sorts of things about therapy.
Does Your Marriage Need To Get UNSTUCK?
Do you ever feel like your relationship is stuck? Running on autopilot? Or completely thrown off course?
I get it, I really do. I want you to know that if you answered yes to any of those questions, you’re normal. Your relationship is totally, 100%, normal.
We all get stuck. We all let our relationships run on cruise control without the proper love and attention they need. And, we all let our partnerships run off course. All of us, even therapists.
