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by Jessica Smith, Director of Operations and Dr. Kendra O’Hora, OwnerReading Time: 10 minutes Insurance, Therapy, Dollar Signs – Oh My! If you’ve ever wondered why some therapy is free (pro-bono), some only requires a small copay, ($15-40), and some can be upwards of $150-300 per session, you’re not alone. At Wellness & Co., we […]
By Amanda Clegg, CNEP, CLC, M.NLPReading Time: 3 minutes 30 sec When the earthquake hits, the first thing you do is find something to hold on to.After betrayal, that’s the work of the first stage: survival. You’re both standing in the rubble, trying to breathe through the dust, unsure if the ground will give way […]
By Amanda Clegg, Relationship Coach, CNEP, CLC, M.NLPReading Time: 4 minutes Understanding the difference between guilt and shame is crucial, not just for your own emotional wellness, but also for how you repair and reconnect with your partner after conflict. This pattern is common in couples counseling: when shame takes over, it creates disconnection and […]
By Amanda Clegg, CNEP, CLC, M.NLPReading Time: 6 minutes You want to feel close.They want to feel calm.You want to talk it through.They want to let it pass.You reach.They retreat.And just like that, you’re both left feeling disconnected—and neither of you got what you needed. Welcome to one of the most common (and painful) patterns […]
By Dylan Vanz, CLC, M.NLP Reading Time: 3 minutes Let’s clear something up right away: ADHD isn’t just about being “distracted” or having too much energy. It’s not just fidgeting during meetings or zoning out mid-convo (though yes, that can happen). ADHD is deeply tied to something called executive function – aka the brain’s command […]
by Rebecca Horch, BACYC, CPCReading Time: 5 Minutes It’s a strange thing to feel the weight of grief without having lost something specific. A heaviness in the chest. A low-grade tension in the body. A sense that something is off, but we can’t always name it. Many of us are living with a kind of […]
by Dr. Kendra O’Hora, Ph.D., LCMFTReading Time: 4 Minutes “Look at me, I’m UP HERE!”…I hear my middle child call out to me. He and his older brother have made it up this fish-like-structure at Marshy Point Nature Center in Baltimore (feel free to google said fish-structure to get a real visual in your head). […]
By Erin Newton, LCPC, PMH-CReading Time: 5 minutes Hello and Happy Mother’s Day to all the moms out there! This post is especially for our new moms, those sleep deprived, unshowered, still in the same sour milk soaked shirt for the last two days goddesses just struggling for a tiny nap, a coffee in peace, […]
At the end of May 2019, we wrapped up the first birth trauma therapy group here at Wellness & Co. For eight weeks, four mamas learned; developed relationships; processed through hurt, pain, abandonment, and anger; and worked on forgiving themselves for not making choices they might have made had they felt empowered to do so. It was a privilege for me to watch them work through their struggles together, especially as a survivor of birth trauma myself. It was amazing to watch a mother soften in her judgement of herself and also feel completely accepted by those around her, something that these women admitted to previously not feeling very often, if ever.
When I started seeing clients in Maryland five years ago I noticed that people often had the same comments or questions regarding the therapeutic process. They typically go something like this: “but you haven’t experienced [parenting] so you don’t really know what its like,” “you must have the perfect marriage,” “I didn’t want to come because people in therapy have real problems and ours isn’t a problem,” “I figured that if I came to therapy once a week something would change”
….these types of comments and more go on and on. In short, people think ALL sorts of things about therapy.
Do you ever feel like your relationship is stuck? Running on autopilot? Or completely thrown off course?
I get it, I really do. I want you to know that if you answered yes to any of those questions, you’re normal. Your relationship is totally, 100%, normal.
We all get stuck. We all let our relationships run on cruise control without the proper love and attention they need. And, we all let our partnerships run off course. All of us, even therapists.